Natural Mother's Say No to Circumcision
...I couldn't have said it more eloquently myself. Everything the author mentions in this article I completely relate with; their decision not to circumcise their son, why, their reasoning, etc.
I'm still surprised when people ask me if I have to retract Levi's foreskin. ????? I guess that's just the common belief? To me it just seems like such outdated misinformation, it's hard for me to believe that it's still out there.
My response is always, "Noooooooooo. His foreskin should never be retracted, unless he's the one doing the retracting."
Boys foreskins will automatically begin to loosen at puberty or just before. Prior to that, the foreskin acts as an extremely important barrier for the glans of the penis; keeping it moist {which it should be, not dry and chafed like the glans of a circumcised penis}, and keeping harmful bacteria out.
Keeping Levi intact was one of the healthiest decisions we ever made for him. Like the author of the above article, I'm committed to getting the word out in our country that foreskins are our friends! Parents....put...the...knife...down.
It's not our decision as parents to decide which perfectly healthy body parts our children get to keep. We don't cut our daughters. We shouldn't cut our sons.
I especially love this quote from the article...
"When I found out I was having a boy in 2001, I hadn’t really thought much about circumcision. I did about five minutes of research and knew immediately I would never allow unnecessary surgery to be performed on my healthy baby boy. Luckily, my husband (who is circumcised) agreed after I showed him just one picture of a circumcision being performed. If my husband hadn’t agreed, I still couldn't have allowed it to happen, so I was glad to avoid a disagreement."
Most of the women I've talked to who made the decision to circumcise their son, cited there reason as mainly that their husband's wanted him to be. Ummmm....yaaaah. I'm his mother. After the research I've done, which like she said, took literally five minutes to come to a logical decision, even if my husband did still want him to be circumcised, it just wouldn't happen. Like I said, I'm his mother. Protector. Life-giver. Nurturer. I love my husband, I honor him and I submit to him. But I protect my babies too. It's my God given job. And my passion.
But I never had to go through that with Dave. I knew what kind of man I married. I picked him for a reason. He was open minded and logical about it. I showed him a couple of youtube videos, cited a couple of studies and we had a heart to heart and that was it. No circumcision.
Friday, July 10, 2009
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Cor, I feel the same way. When we found out we were having Josh, I knew I couldn't put him through that. I talked to Matt about it, he wanted to have it done, until I should him some videos and some of the research out there. He changed his mind right away. I couldn't of put Josh through all that pain, for "tradition". I have had to learn to ignore all the rude comments though for family members. They will never understand, until they have a son.
Thank you for being brave enough to both stand up for your son's body, and talk honestly about it :). So many women do it because the father wants it done. Sometimes there is a struggle, other times not, but as mothers, we have to stand strong. You're so right- it has nothing to do with how much we love our partner and want to make them happy. When people like you share their story, it makes it easier for all of us to do what we need to do. Thank you.
Yup.
I agree.
Us too.
The only prob with not circumsizing is in the time of war. My late hubby was cursing his mom ALOT during the Vietnam war ... OWCH! His bros were all circumsized - but he was not.
His bros did not go to a war. :(
God bless though! :)
us too
if my son wants to when he's old enough to make an informed choice (15-16 years old) then he can...up till the I do not feel it is my choice to do something to someone else's body.
My little duders, if they are not to be girlies, will not be circumcised. Gotta love the Euro in me.
And isn't the reasoning of so many American families totally wacko? So he will look like all the other boys/his dad/not be embarrassed in the locker room?
Hahaha Kristin, love the expression "little duders"! I'll have to use that one sometime :D
Yes, the entire premise that we should perform a physical operation to remove a perfectly healthy, functioning peice of our child's anatomy in the name of conformity...???? It astonishes me that this type of mindset comes out of a country like America, where, "Be yourself" and "If everyone jumped off a bridge, would you?" are our societal mantras.
It's seriously important that we start to communicate with our kids and teach then, rather than simply continue outdated and nonsensical traditions like routine circumcision.
I am so with you on this one. It was actually my husband who started me on the road to questioning routine circumcision. He also clued me in to the function of the foreskin. My thought now is that if it ain't broke, don't fix it. And I really don't get the matchy-matchy thing. When in the world are people comparing fathers' and sons' penises?? What a bizarre line of reasoning.
Hey Corin,
I have started a new series on my blog, its called Labor Views. Go check it out you will probably like it!
http://adayin5.blogspot.com/2009/07/labor-views-part-1.html
Charity
Corin,
I know what you mean, could you imagine how much better things would be with a midwife in every hospital. It would change the way women viewed birth entirely. The second installment is up if you want to check it out.
I wish more women would consider birthing centers, there is no reason for birth to be as medical as it is.
Charity
I so agree! I just wanted to let you know I added your blog to my blogroll at www.organicchildbearer.blogspot.com if you could ad me to yours that would be great.
I have two girls but knew there was no way I would allow any healthy child of mine to be altered in any way. Glad to have found your blog...following :)
i confess.. i only dream of living there. it is my favorite place in this world :) and someday, we will.
right now we are stuck in rural midwest but our hearts are in France.
i am quite cautious and therefore object to posting our real location.
tomorrow I will tell you all the good info I've gleaned from lurking thru your posts these past few hours :) but now I will sleep. It is almost 3 am here.
Beautiful Blog~
Corin - I miss your blogging... where are you?
I'm here! I'm here! Actually, this blog has been on my mind for months. I think of things to post all the time, but really, am just totally in mommy mode, with very little time to spare! I will definitely update by the end of the week!
I completely agree with this entry! I am so happy I never had to convince anyone 'not' to circumcise, living in Canada, it is not as common here as our friends south of the border and doesn't usually happen anymore unless for religious reasons or the parents are really adamant it gets done. When my son was born it was not even a topic discussed at the hospital, thank-goodness for that :)
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